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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 06:24

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Wow! The changeover from President Biden to VP Kamala Harris as candidate could not have been more successful in just 2 days! It was as if they had been planning it. Could they have planned it? Are you excited by the positive Democratic response?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What is one thing you've learned from life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How is sex in college like with roommates and big campuses?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What kind of pleasure do gay men get from being bottom? The idea is very appealing to me but in practice it's quite painful.

Ask yourself:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why do some of those who believe in a god refuse to consider the possibility they could be wrong?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why do many people think that Japan is not a gay-friendly country whereas 72% Japanese support same-sex marriage (the same number as in the US)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why does my 5-year-old daughter keep repeating the words 'they will come for us, they will find us and touch us'? I'm quite scared.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What are the bitter truths of life one should know?

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why do people stop working towards achieving their dreams?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Procrastinates a lot.

I'm looking for an answer from people who consider themselves "Gender Critical", or transphobic, or TERFs, and my question is this - Why would you refuse to use the pronouns someone wants? What does it cost you? Where's the harm?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can we understand the mind of a Trump supporter?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.